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What is the Mission of The Kids Come First Coalition?

Last month after I launched my new website, http://www.restrainingorder911.com, and released my new ebook by the same name, I’ve had the pleasure to hear back from women about the restraining order process and its actual purpose. I am responding to their comments and concerns in this article.
Back when I was hit with my restraining order, I didn’t know what to do. I was angry, afraid, and depressed. I was introduced to the terrifying machine of The Divorce Industry which has no regard for individual feelings, but sucks in everyone—parents and children—chews them up and spits them out.
As soon as I got my foothold, I started doing research and came across a number of father’s rights groups. I quickly saw that many of these groups could be considered anti-woman. Even though I was angry at my wife at the time, I wasn’t ever anti-woman. Over weeks, months and years, I’ve even managed to come to terms with my frustration toward my ex-wife.
RestrainingOrder911.com and my other websites are not anti-women. They couldn’t be. It is my firm belief that men alone are not going to change the current state of affairs. The legal and political system has put in place a machine that creates monetary incentives for breaking families apart. It is insidious, but it is nameless and faceless. The System doesn’t care about an individual case. If you happen to get sucked up into the process no amount of thrashing around will help. You’ll just get chewed up and spit out like everyone else. It’s not about the individual or what is best for anyone involved. Men, women, and children are victimized with no regard for their mental, physical, emotional or spiritual health.
Horrible ex-husbands exist. I’ve run across more cases than I care to mention where the ex-husband is a legitimate lout. He won’t pay child support and doesn’t want to be involved with his kids. These are not the fathers my sites were made for. This site—and all my sites—are for fathers who want to be part of their kids’ lives, who want to live up to their responsibilities, and who want to be a positive role model for their children.
There’s very little that educates individuals on how to advocate for themselves in a way that reduces the animosity between the parties. If you want to be adversarial in the process, you will continue to be involved in the system. It will feed off your anger. The result is you will both be broke and bitter and your children will suffer as a result. Societal change will come from the involvement of everyone—men and women—friends, family, and associates: People who recognize that society is far better off when fathers are not systematically separated from their own children.

By: Ron Lasorsa

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