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Playground and Backyard Fun While I was out walking earlier today; I could not help but to rush back home into my house to share this article with you. It comes from me observing my surroundings watching and listening to little boys and girls play outdoors. After circling around the sidewalk and hearing and watching their method of fun it’s “heart-breaking” to see them unattended and not looked upon at all. Staying Joyful While Parenting Though frustrations may come; staying joyful is what must be done to keep your sanity while parenting. Joy is an attribute that comes from God and it’s a gift from God. To be honest with you; there’s only one way to be filled with joy and that’s through the person of the Holy Spirit. I know some of you who may be reading this article may not be Christians or believe like I do, but if you are reading this article then one thing we both have in common are being parents. Children Are Responsible for their Own Actions The telephone ring; it’s a call from your child’s teacher. The teacher is calling to inform you that your child has been disrespectful and disruptive in school. You calmly listen to the comments being made about your child and wonder in awl. It’s a fact children will be children regardless of where they are at. Appreciation For Your Child I know there are times when our children can really be a pain in the butt. I know they can get on our nerves periodically. I know if it wasn’t for my child then I personally don’t think my life would have become what it has become today. It amazes me when I look back over the last twelve years of my life and see my daughter continuing to grow up. Signs of the Manipulating Child I can’t help but to love my daughter in many different ways. Yet her behavior can be a thorn in my flesh. I’m far from being the perfect parent; there are times when my daughter attempts to get away with murder to the degree like it’s killing me. She simply uses manipulation. She has her way of wanting to control me and to get what she wants. Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn’t. Explaining the Consequences of Bad Behavior While it doesn’t take a rocket scientist to explain the law of gravity; it does take a simple explanation to share with your child the consequences for their actions. My daughter has tried over and over, time after time to test the waters with bad behavioral actions. The best I can do is explain to her the consequences for her actions. Who’s really the Boss? After experiencing what I experienced today at church; I really wonder who’s in charge. Wow, I’m not trying to be sarcastic or mean but enough is enough. I’m not even attempting to meddle in your business; but I really need to know who’s in charge? Shocks of Divorce and Family Separation While divorce is such a delicate subject dealing with the issue of divorce and separation can be devastating to all parties involved. If you do not have children then that will help lighten the load of your domestic disputes, but if you do have children it makes the matter more complicated to experience and deal with. I do not condone it, but sometimes and unfortunately it’s necessary due to the current domestic laws that protect our legal rights. Practicing Patience Are you quick tempered? Do you snap if your child is slow to learning a new task? Do you find yourself tensed and confused? Are you irritable of caring for your child all by yourself? Are you looking for instant gratification? Are you making snappy decisions when it comes to the well-being of your child? Would you like to become a more patience person? Lifetime Family Values There are some things in life you just don’t forget. I can remember when I was a little boy growing up and my mom and dad had their family rules and traditions. As I reminiscence on yesterday and consider the morals that was set for me when I growing up I can’t but thank both my parents for having family values that has lasted a lifetime. Torned Between Momma and Daddy Are you making it harder for your child to choose between you or the other parent? Do you and the other parent get along well enough to co-exist between each other? The heartache and pain children can face when neither of their parents can get along is shameful. Parent’s Aren’t Perfect Just Responsible As parents we sometimes make it seem as if we have it all together to the degree that our children do not notice the mistakes and problematic issues we face as parents. I find it necessary sometimes to share with my daughter and let her know I’m not perfect. I do not pretend to be something I’m not; neither do I make it seem as though I have no troubles in my life. Who’s the Parent you or your Child? It is quite fascinating today when I see some parents letting their child or children tell them (the parent) what they want to do or what they’re going to do. Or even what they won’t do. Do you let your child tell you want they’re going to do? I’m from the old school. The Challenges of Parenthood One thing all parents have in common is that children or a child will challenge their authority. It’s across the board; whether you are financially rich or economically poor, children will challenge your authority. Do you have a rebellious child? Do you have a child that acts out in school or at home? Does your child embarrass you in public? Overcoming Obstacles While Being in a Custody Dispute While it is quite frightening unfortunately to recognize that the divorce rate is hovering around the 40% to 50% rate, as long as you are still married or have fathered or mothered a child; chances are there’s always a good possibility you could be the next person headed to family court. It happened to me; and it sure can happen to you. Communicating Better with your Children Effective communicating methods are essential when wanting to communicate with your child. Your job as a parent is to listen aggressively and not passively to your child request and concerns. I find it quite necessary to give my daughter my undivided attention when she wants to talk to me. Discipline But Be Loving Listening, learning, and observing your children are very effective ways of getting them to open up to you when disciplinary action is require to getting your child attention. Giving your child your undivided attention by listening is the first thing you should consider doing when things become tensed; The Joy of Being a Single Parent! Let’s face it. It’s true we all do not remain married for one reason or another. But, through it all for those of you who have children, there’s nothing better than having a child to love. I find it very, very deserving and challenging of being a single parent. I would not trade the responsibly for anything.

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